When a divorce takes place, parents have to decide the best arrangement possible for their children. This is always done with the children's best interests in mind, so they can remain as stable as possible during this big change in their lives. However, a parenting plan may need adjusting at some points. For example, if you expect your schedules to change during time periods like summer, it is important to start planning accordingly ahead of time.
Bez Law Firm, P.C. can provide you with tips and suggestions for making alterations to your parenting plan.
Communicate as a Co-Parent
The easiest way to modify a parenting plan is to directly communicate your need for a change with your fellow co-parent. If you cannot reach a compromise together, you could end up taking your matters to court. Reach out to your co-parent and let them know that you may need a modification or have specific plans that will need accommodation. You don’t have to go through this process without assistance though. It is still possible to utilize the help of your attorney to guide you through negotiations with your ex-spouse.
Strive for Flexibility
When changes do occur, it can be stressful to readapt. However, if you change your mindset and remember the importance of flexibility, it can become easier. You may never know when you will need a last-minute change or adjustment to your own schedules. If your co-parent requests to have the children during a time that they usually do not, lend them some flexibility and try your best to accommodate the changes. Remember that in co-parenting, compromise is a necessity; for example, you may need a similar adjustment in the future.
Stay Committed to Your Children
When you discuss schedule changes with your fellow co-parent, remember that your kids should always come first. If you feel as though an adjustment is not in their best interest, communicate that. Advocate for your children’s needs and try to think would be best for them. For example, during summers, they should have the opportunity to spend ample time with each parent. One does not deserve more vacation time than the other.
Bez Law Firm, P.C. Can Lend a Hand
If you encounter issues with your parenting plan or custody agreements, it is important to have an experienced attorney and advocate in your corner. Bez Law Firm, P.C. is here to help guide you through negotiations, or take your case to court if necessary.
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